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  • xyzgc
    02-08 01:50 PM
    Hi,
    I been a member of IV for a long time and just to keep myself anonymous for a while I created this account. I am so sorry for opening a thread in a completely irrelevant forum but I have no idea what to do. So, I request all the members to please help me by providing some kind of information.

    Here is my story:

    I came to US in 2002 and completed masters and been working since then. I got married couple of years ago. Whatever the monetary gifts the girls parents gave as part of the marriage, I put all that in an account on the girls name within 2 days of the marriage. We came to India and from then on the problems started. She and her parents want me to separate from my parents and support their family by sending money to their parents which I couldn't do. How can I leave my parents in their old age when they worked very hard to give a decent life. She has been harassing me mentally for this all the time. Recently her parents have been threatening me saying they will file dowry case in India if I don't send money or cut myself off from my parents. I provided for the girl in all possible ways, even encouraged her to join school to get a masters degree which she stopped soon. We had a baby recently and my parents visited us to help us with the baby. She started harassing them too by saying something or other.

    I am very frustrated at this situation and I don't know what to do. I am on H1B and applied for 485 too. At times I feel like applying for divorce but when I think about my little baby I am not able to take that step. The house we currently live in, I bought long before the marriage. It came to a situation where we cannot live together. I cannot ask her to go out of the house because she doesn't have anywhere to go and with the baby even if she leaves, it will be very tough. I said I will leave the house and stay in a apartment for which she threatens to commit suicide. So, I don't know what to do. I am worried about my baby because between all this my baby's life will be spoiled and I don't want that. Can anyone please tell me what I can do in this matter?

    Thank you very much for taking time to read this.

    When you hear incidents like this, its always like "girls are too much". On the contrary, when we hear of wives being beaten up by "educated husbands" boys are too much. This is all silly really.
    I have heard some indian females complaining all the time how males tend to dominate everywhere its not really true. In a relationship, anyone could be a dominant partner - male or female. Dominance also means responsibility and taking initiative. So its not all that bad. And it is certainly not a male prerogative!!

    Your case is a clear case of "external interference". Divorce is not a solution to cases like these. Its not like you are not getting along. You relationship is spoiled due to unwanted interference. Convince your wife that you and her always come first. You cannot make your parents happy at the cost of displeasing her and also the other way round.

    Stop trying to diplomatic and stop being a family-pleaser. If you don't like something, say it clear and upfront rather than pussy footing around it. I found that diplomacy does not work at all. It only sends wrong signals and eventually you end up putting a firm foot down, anyways.

    Get rid of the elders from your life. It means don't allow parents/siblings from either sides to interfere at all in any decision making. Get the inputs but make it clear its a joint decision made by husband-wife and they have no say in it. Don't allow your parents/in-laws to stay with you more than bare minimum necessary for the new-born.
    If it means making some career sacrifices, so be it. Its your baby and you need to take care of it finally.

    Retrospect - analyze what has gone wrong. Today, you find your wife is all wrong and you are all right but when you do the retrospect you'll find its not like that, in fact its never like that. Humans make mistakes and we must accept that.

    Stop sending money to parents and in-laws, if its possible. Otherwise, maintain parity by sending money in small amounts to both parents. Its stupid to say my wife is not working so she has no business to send money to her parents. Its so wrong and I'm surprised folks can think like this. Marriage is about sharing and even a child will tell you that. If the in-laws are any sensible they won't accept gifts from the son-in-law but its for them to decide.And stop receiving any gifts from either sides.

    If you are in the US, don't go to your home country unless its an absolute must. I found that every time I go there family and relatives end up giving tons of unsolicited advice. The intentions are good but I have to keep saying no (diplomacy doesn't work at all) and that gets very annoying eventually.

    Finally, if you have a career oriented working wife there are advantages to it. Its better to work instead of being a hopeless housewife.
    Yes, it also means you can't take things for granted but that's no reason you should end up with a sweet, traditional house wife who'll no longer be that way when hopelessness sets in.




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  • ags123
    02-19 10:10 PM
    a) The obvious, in April spill over happens. India Jumped from U to 1dec 03 in April08

    b) in 2008 April India Eb2 tied with China Eb2 as India Eb2 was unavailable in March 2008
    given the regulation of giving spillover by earliest date India Eb2 held China Eb2 at the 1Dec03 date for the month of April 2008

    c) This year has not needed any pd backward movement for India. This is unlike 2008 where it went to Jan02 and Jan00 to U. This means India Quota itself is still being used and yet we are at 15 Feb 04.

    Please let me know if you see any more interesting things in this.

    I Ch
    Oct 2007 1-Apr-04 1-Jan-06
    Nov 2007 1-Apr-04 1-Jan-06
    Dec 2007 1-Jan-02 1-Jan-03
    Jan 2008 1-Jan-00 1-Jan-03
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    Mar 2008 U 1-Dec-03
    Apr 2008 1-Dec-03 1-Dec-03
    May 2008 1-Jan-04 1-Jan-04
    Jun 2008 1-Apr-04 1-Apr-04
    Jul 2008 1-Apr-04 1-Apr-04
    Aug 2008 1-Jun-06 1-Jun-06
    Sep 2008 1-Aug-06 1-Aug-06
    Oct 2008 1-Apr-03 1-Apr-04
    Nov 2008 1-Jun-03 1-Jun-04
    Dec 2008 1-Jun-03 1-Jun-04
    Jan 2009 1-Jul-03 8-Jul-04
    Feb 2009 1-Jan-04 1-Jan-05
    Mar 2009 15-Feb-04 15-Feb-05
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  • bhatt
    09-10 12:19 PM
    One thing for sure USCIS do likes April fools day a lot as this the date they usually pick when the retrogress. This proves that a fool named DOS in love with April fools day.:)

    USCIS and DOS love to pick APRIL FOOLS DAY as cut off date especially for India :) is it coincident or !:eek:
    Are they telling that we have FOOLED you, immigrants again and again.




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  • valuablehurdle
    07-19 10:52 AM
    Can anyone please post a 'sample letter' and the contact information?
    I want to post a hard copy of the letter personally to the Atlanta center.

    Stuck since April 15th.



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  • franklin
    07-20 06:03 PM
    are u kidding? raise country cap to 10%!!!!!!!!!

    only solution is get rid of the country cap. Before anybody from ROW goes into a lecture about "diversity" blah blah blah please think with a rational mind. Getting rid of country quota is the only solution. things like increasing it to 10% etc will only reduce the backlog time for Indian applicants from 25 years to maybe 18 years.

    When did that happen? I've never opposed getting rid of the country cap as I find it offensive and discriminatory. Would it screw me personally? Probably, but some people here don't just care about themselves

    Don't you dare tar us all!:p




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  • vin13
    03-08 10:48 PM
    http://www.shusterman.com/

    news ticker mentions Eb3 ROW and Eb3 phillipines will Retrogress by 1 year to 2004. (He mentions a phone call from Hillary, not too sure whether to believe it)

    Could this be futher indication that the spill over from Eb1 and Eb4 and Eb5 will go to Eb2 India and China?

    only Monday will tell... This is one nerve wracking weekend.

    It is weird that Shusterman had information about ROW EB-3 retrogressing by 1 year. Why did he not say anything about EB-2?



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  • needhelp!
    03-12 03:37 PM
    No. Core member details are on IV About Us.
    Agenda of lobbying remains same. It doesn't change weeky/monthly or even annually. Country quotas, increase in EB gc numbers, portability issues. It is also on IV website. Please look. No more details other than that will be made available, unless a bill is on the floor, thats when you see the results. Results are hard to come by. Core cannot reveal roadblocks or mini successes as these are all detrimental to the effort.

    Are you part of core?

    Can i take that core will not even give out information on what efforts it is lobbying currently?

    I wonder how i will convince some of my friends to contribute to an effort which is not shared?:confused:




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  • eb3_nepa
    07-16 12:20 PM
    $1 gas money saved from not going to subway :D :cool:


    Good one!



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  • desi3933
    08-13 04:02 PM
    I don't think we can do 'anything' about EB3 I. We are 100% at the mercy of USA (politicians, USCIS, DOS or whoever).

    We can write letters, emails, fax, contribute to IV but nothing is gonna help. This is the fact!

    We are not going to get our GC when we need it but only when they give it. And, it is not going to happen anytime sooner.

    The options that we have in front of us (which would work for sure):

    1. Live with this. Don't come to any forum, don't think about VISA bulletin. Take your Gc when it comes to your doorstep. May be by then, we may not need it. We may be tired of being on the same job and GC may not bring any motivation to our career.

    2. Move over to EB2 - If possible, take all the pains of changing job, place of living, unpredictability in PERM queue and I140 queue and move over to EB2. But you never know. One of our Indian brothers might have just won a lawsuit to stop us from moving over!! In that sense, EB3 I is worst than illegals. Least wanted legals in the USA!!

    3. Get out of this country - Give up the American dream and come to reality and start a new dream. May be Canadian dream or Australian dream...

    We are stuck. And, nobody is going to help us. This is hard fact. Believe it.

    Wearing my optimist hat, the only thing I can think of is, whether IV supports it or not (reason I say this is - once we talk about this -the core is going to refer to poor 'high five' collection or 'low number of people calling congressmen' etc. Not blaming them. They have their own issues. For us, the problems are bigger. IV core will not do anything for EB3 I exclusive) some 50-100 EB3 I applicants should go to DC and meet high officials, CHC folks and every department that is influential to EB immigrant VISA and make them understand our plight. No guarantee that this would work. But, we will get a first hand response that may help atleast help us to chose from one of 3 options listed above.

    The only practical solution, IMHO, is to move over to EB-2. Like they say, If you can't beat them, join them.


    ______________________________
    US Permanent Resident since 2002
    N-400 Oath Date on Aug 19th, 2008




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  • needhelp!
    09-12 03:02 PM
    http://www.prleap.com/pr/93560/
    http://www.express-press-release.com
    http://www.texas-press-release.com
    http://www.pressmethod.com/releasestorage/22524.htm
    http://www.free-press-release.com/news/200709/1189618576.html
    http://www.i-newswire.com



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  • jonty_11
    07-06 12:58 PM
    I see lots of frustration here. July fillers, you will definitely feel good after hearing my story. At least you are not in my situation. Read this: I was eligible to file in June under June visa bulletin. My deshi blood s^#$* employer did not provide me the letter in time. I am in my 7th year of H1B and they refused to provide my I-140 approval copy. I have the receipt# only. Attorney will not give it to me either. Now what should I do. You guys at lest will be able to file may be in future. What about me! Please suggest anyone!! Now I can not go to a new employer also! See, you are in better position than mine.
    why cant u go to another employer...I think if ur current employer is not willing to file 485 for u..then u have NO OPTION BUT TO SWITCH EMPLOYER....




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  • kanaihya
    09-12 04:48 PM
    Sent an email to all in the list. will do it tommorrow again with different story and name. No work in the office today, just campaigning "Chalo DC"



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  • franklin
    09-28 08:11 PM
    Huge surprise

    Good job there aren't any inefficiencies in processing...

    ...Oh.... wait!




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  • coopheal
    03-09 07:56 PM
    Pardon my ignorance, but where does the data on the last 2 columns - the one for I-485s - come from? And does that includes Family+EB?

    Good question.

    Its monthly report on immigration benefits which USCIS releases. A very crappy version of the FOIA request IV is working. For November and December I have added the linked to the report. I-485s numbers listed there are indeed all types of 485s USCIS receives. i.e. it contains Family based, Asylum base, etc.

    I added the column here because majority (75-85% my estimate) of the 485s are EB based.

    Feel free to add more links, columns of related information.



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  • GCKarma
    07-06 11:12 AM
    Man, in frustration people do not even know what to say and what not! Be very careful of what you spin and what you say. From the looks of it, this stuff has every chance of spinning out of control and it may have already started the ball rolling.Think about it for a second!. Once it goes that way, trust me, we will all live to regret that.
    Yes, DHS approved upwards of 25000 GCs over the weekend, leading up to July 2nd. And some people are pissed off at that, err..why?
    Remember, those 25000 are one of us. Once,they too were in line for Labor certifications, I-140s, medical exams and all that crap. And some of them were in the so called "FBI Name check" black-hole for an extended period of time. We should be rejoicing in the fact that most of those backlogs got cleaned up. Instead we have people questioning the validity of those newly approved GCs.My dear friends, god willing, we will all have GCs one day and tell me, how would you feel if someone else comes screaming at you just because he did not get one too.
    Putting a "security lapse" spin on this could be very dangerous and should be avoided at any cost. I hope one of those anti-immigrant lobbies do not pick it up and start running with that. I prey that they do not revoke those already approved GCs, because if they do, then those poor 25000 souls will go through much more agony than what we are going through now.

    It's very tough to get the genie back in the bottle once it is out, so think before you start popping that cork.
    ~AMK

    Atleast those 25,000 people have EAD.Think about the remaining 700 thousand people who are in a deep shit




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  • u.misc
    12-11 11:49 AM
    Looks like they are changing the spillover rules again from Horizontal to Vertical this is bad news for EB2 I

    Pardon my ignorance.... Can you enlighten me as how Vertical and Horizontal spillover works ? What exactly happens in Vertical spillover and how is it different from horizontal.



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  • Humhongekamyab
    04-30 02:15 PM
    Does anyone else have the same problem. The webcast is erroring out.. saying page not found .

    Let's try at 2:30 PM.




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  • meridiani.planum
    09-11 11:29 PM
    Can one even file a lawsuit against USCIS ?? :D

    this is the United States. You can file a lawsuit against ANYONE :D




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  • ashutrip
    06-21 09:55 AM
    anybody here who got his labor certified from Atlanta off late
    anybody ....any news of backlog getting cleared




    snathan
    08-24 01:51 PM
    So this actually supports my point. There is no "loophole" to close.

    I recommend my friends snathan and swissgear to avoid actions based on jealousy over people just like yourself. But hurting them you hurt yourself

    Giving reds - is that the only thing you can do? Do you want more "helpful" posts from me? I wish to avoid the specifics of your arguments or rebukes, as they are not important here, so if my replies are not "helpful" then perhaps your arguments are irrelevant to begin with

    First be clear whats your point and then enlighten us how this supports it

    Please let me know how this so called multinational executives are getting compensated. Whats the stock/option given to these executives. The available information shows only three days of extended stay and one week of car which they need to share with other executives. Fortunately the extended stay suites come with attached rest room. Otherwise they need to share with other multinational executives. There would be long queue in front of the shared room and eventual back log...

    Yeap...we are very envious about this. Let it be.

    I am least bothered about how/what they are paying to their executives. when they are exploiting the system, its you and me are the one getting affacted. Otherwise these would have trickled down as spillover.


    I am not going to post anything on this any more and feeding the troll.




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